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I just got into an argument with my husband, well maybe a disagreement since we didn't really yell, but I feel really calm. Normally I would be upset and crying, but I am kind of glad. It seems that lately we are living two separate lives and this disagreement is kind of a wake up call. Either we make a decision to continue or we make a change. I feel good that he is now aware that we clearly are not on the same page. There is definitely things I need to change and there are things he needs to change. It feels good to have that out there. Of course he still isn't talking to me, but he needs to think things over. He'll eventually come around and we will be able to work on the issues.

It's a weird feeling to be happy over a fight.